Decision making is never an easy task, especially when we are to be affected in long terms. I am fed up of encountering: “grab it by the balls”, change is something we should look up to. This includes utilizing other sensitive aspects of the human body, rather than shying away from them. A way we live, is mainly based off decisions we make. This makes one quake in one’s boots, when the time arrives. Many fear to make a wrong decision, anticipating tremendous catastrophic consequences. However, let us not forget that we need to live life to the fullest, appreciating life, crafting new moments, rather than feasting on memories.
Over the years, the trail hasn’t been easy, and I am still on it. I have learnt, and still learning, to make decisions based on what I can live with, instead of making decisions out of fear, of resulting consequences. Of course, there have been regrets, but it has been worth it. What is worse in life, is never trying out something, harboring a torment of wishing you tried it out. It isn’t easy, but with time, one gets to catch up. Evaluating of possible outcomes, deserves to be placed into consideration, to a reasonable degree. However, simply jumping in, gives one a thrilling cool vibe of being adventurous and spontaneous. We should not forget a commonly ignored fact that, life is not a one-way street, but there is always an alternative.
To better grab decisions by the tits and avoid serious consequences; be objective ignoring emotions, though the latter is another toughie. Seeking help from a stranger, when making a big life decision, comes in handy. It sounds strange, but a stranger is likely to provide you with facts and personal experiences, rather than someone who knows you in person. Furthermore, stranger isn’t worried about hurting your feelings, if you ask them to be brutally honest. Stranger stands on a neutral ground, without worry of you calling and yelling at them on a later date, incase you make the wrong decision.
It is part of human nature to shift blame unto someone else, when shit goes south. Let us keep in mind that no matter who you blame, it is still your life, and must get back up. Certain life decisions seem obvious, but, but, care always deserves to be taken. Decision made doesn’t necessarily have to be “right” but should have good intentions. As for who in the hell decides that decision made was with good intentions, I leave that to the school of thought you belong to.
Staying focused and making decisions one can live with, is a way forward. Not only is time saved, but one stands higher chances of letting go, when it all goes perfectly so wrong. A matter of fact remains: it was my decision, and I made it. Let us cut the crap and reduce time wasted, by trying to make the “right” decision. Time is of the essence and shall never be regained. And besides, how will you find out it was the wrong decision, unless you try it out? In case you are still having trouble in making a tough decision, try viewing the situation and accompanying aspects, with an Altered Life Perspective.
Plapus 
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